A honeymoon can be the perfect start to a marriage, full of passion, romance, intimacy and relaxation. Most of us consider the honeymoon to be the ultimate holiday, where we can enjoy a destination to its utmost with our new spouse. But possibly the most crucial part of a honeymoon is its planning. Perfect honeymoons don't often happen by chance. They take careful forethought, meticulous planning, attention to detail and lots of homework.

It helps to put pen to paper and consider the kinds of things you and your spouse want to do on your honeymoon. Define what it is you enjoy doing while on vacation, and determine if your wish list of personal preferences is in synch with your spouse’s. If it's not, you'll need to reach a compromise and determine an agenda of activities that are mutually agreeable—before you select a destination.

Look for travel companies that specialize in honeymoon planning. Using a professional to plan your honeymoon will ensure you the ultimate vacation. They take that extra effort to make your honeymoon romantic, exciting and memorable.

It's possible to have a superb honeymoon closer to home for a fraction of the cost, without sacrificing the intimacy and privacy you crave. Consider some of British Columbia's quieter corners, such as Tofino in the winter, Whistler, Kelowna and many more.

Wherever you go, be sure to mention that you're on honeymoon and you're sure to get positive responses. That could mean a shortened wait at a restaurant, a better seat on the airplane, a basket of fruit sent to your hotel room or more smiles, warmth and care from those you encounter than you'd ordinarily receive. And it's all these little things that make a world of difference.