Couples spend months and in some cases years in planning for their wedding day, yet when it comes to planning for their marriage, many couples enter into it blindly. Pre-marriage courses are recommended for any couple getting married for the first time—or even the third time—regardless of their denomination.

A common misconception is that these courses focus mainly on religion, though this is not the case. They’re an excellent way to open the lines of communication between couples, perhaps bringing up topics they’ve not yet discussed. Courses are offered in single sessions or in sessions lasting up to six weeks, and help couples prepare for some of the realities they face ahead. Topics range from money management, to the roles each person will assume, and even to discussions of sexuality.

These courses also help teach couples effective communication, giving them the skills necessary to face the challenges that may lie ahead.