Music is one of the most powerful means of setting the mood and tone of your event, even though it may only require a small part of your budget. Don't leave your entertainment to a well-meaning friend with an extensive vinyl collection. Go with professionals who are contractually obligated to show up on time, who play the music you agreed upon, and, importantly, who fit your style and taste.

Planning your music should be seen as a fun activity for you and your fiancé. Public libraries offer a wealth of classical music which you can borrow to find selections that fit your tastes and requirements. Professional musicians and DJs will also offer their own suggestions.

Remember, you can combine live and recorded music at the ceremony and the reception, if the venues have the right equipment. Once you've set a date, the music should be one of the first things you hire, as performers can be booked months in advance.

The managers of your ceremony and reception venues may be able to recommend musicians and DJs. Friends and family may also be able to provide suggestions and references. Remember, whomever you choose, you should feel at ease with them when you meet to plan the play list. Whether you choose a band or DJ, get everything in writing, including fees, deposits, minimum hours played, play lists, technical requirements such as amplifiers and power outlets, attire, transportation fees and directions to the venues.