A few days prior to the wedding, or on the evening before, a rehearsal is held to ensure the ceremony runs smoothly. If possible, all members of the bridal party, parents, ushers and any musicians or soloists should be present. Your wedding officiant will assist you in the general arrangement of the wedding procedures, including the entrances, an overview of the ceremony including the readings, and the exits. It is important that you express your wishes for any special touches at this time.

Have your videographer attend to get an sense of the layout of the ceremony site and to shoot some rehearsal footage. Also, give the flower girl and ring bearer plenty of opportunity to get used to walking down the aisle.

REHEARSAL DINNER
The rehearsal is usually followed by a dinner, traditionally hosted by the groom’s parents. The rehearsal dinner may be held at a restaurant or home. In addition to being a way to thank the bridal party, the dinner also gives everyone a chance to get to know one another before your big day. It also gives the couple the opportunity to present their gifts of appreciation to the bridal party.

The tradition of having the bride’s parents pay for the entire wedding is no longer etched in stone. More and more couples today are contributing significantly to the cost of the wedding, if not paying for it entirely. It’s wise to discuss your expectations with both sets of parents so that there are no last minute surprises.